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Preventing Bullying and Its Health Risks

Bullying, harassment, and intimidation harm children's emotional and physical health and interfere with learning. This article turns MSDE's practical checklist into an action plan for parents and childcare professionals, and points to targeted ChildCareEd training such as Addressing Bullying Among School Age Children Buy Now $35.00 and Be Loud, No Bullying Allowed Buy Now $16.00 to support staff implementation. The sections below define bullying, describe health risks, and give clear next steps for families and programs.

What is bullying, and how does it differ from teasing or conflict?

Bullying is repeated aggressive behavior that involves a real or perceived power imbalance and causes harm or distress to the target. It can be physical, verbal, relational (social exclusion, rumor-spreading), or cyber (online attacks). Unlike ordinary conflict, bullying is repeated and one-sided and creates an environment of fear or exclusion. The Office of Justice Programs provides a concise definition and lists the common types and settings where bullying occurs (school, playground, neighborhood, online) which programs should use when drafting policies.[OJP]

How common are harassment, intimidation, and bullying in schools?

Administrative and survey data show bullying is persistent but variably reported. A descriptive analysis of WVEIS discipline referrals (2012–2013) found 5,474 of 220,656 referrals (2.5%) were for harassment, intimidation, and bullying behaviors, with middle school students accounting for nearly half of those referrals and common responses including out-of-school and in-school suspensions and conferences. These referral data undercount true prevalence—many students do not report victimization—but they do reveal patterns (grade-level concentration, co-occurring disruptive behaviors) programs should monitor. The Office of Justice Programs underscores that bullying occurs across classrooms, playgrounds and online, and is associated with depression, anxiety, chronic absenteeism, and concentration problems. Programs should review local discipline data, track grade-level trends (especially middle-school transitions), and prioritize evidence-based universal prevention alongside targeted responses.[WVEIS analysis] [OJP]

What signs, health risks, and immediate steps should caregivers take when bullying occurs?

Children who are bullied or who bully others can show behavioral, emotional, and physical signs: increasing anxiety or depression, withdrawal from friends or activities, chronic absenteeism, trouble concentrating, sleep disturbance, unexplained injuries, changes in appetite, or sudden declines in academic performance. These consequences are well documented and can become chronic without timely intervention, including increased risk of long-term mental-health problems.[OJP]

When a child reports bullying, caregivers should act promptly and systematically: 1. Validate the child's experience and acknowledge feelings without minimizing. 2. Collect specifics — who, what, when, where, witnesses, and screenshots for cyber incidents — and preserve evidence. 3. Report to the school or program following policy and request written confirmation and next steps. 4. Ensure immediate safety by arranging supervision or alternate drop-off/pick-up if needed. 5. Support coping and skill-building through role-play, rehearsed reporting language, and reinforcing positive peer interactions. 6. If there is an imminent threat or self-harm talk, follow emergency procedures and contact authorities. These actions align with recommended school responses and common disciplinary options seen in school data, including counseling and targeted interventions.[WVEIS data]

How can child care programs and teachers prevent bullying day-to-day?

Prevention requires program-level commitment and concrete practices. Start with a clear anti-bullying policy that defines behaviors and consequences and includes reporting routes for staff, families, and children. Implement universal strategies such as consistent adult supervision, social-emotional learning, explicit teaching of empathy and conflict resolution, and classroom rules that promote respect. Active supervision, predictable transitions, and staff modeling of pro-social interactions reduce incidents; consider the ChildCareEd course Active Supervision: A Strategy That Works Buy Now $35.00 to train staff. Embed restorative responses and skill-building rather than relying solely on exclusionary discipline. Connect prevention to daily practice: see related ChildCareEd articles on emotions and teacher habits for concrete classroom strategies: How Emotions Help Children Build Social Connections, What Small Teacher Habits Do Children Notice the Most?, and program guidance What Do Superheroes Teach Kids About Kindness and Courage?

When is professional help or assessment needed?

If a child shows persistent symptoms (depression, self-harm statements, severe anxiety, or aggression that does not respond to program supports), seek assessment from a licensed mental-health professional or pediatrician. Families and programs should coordinate care plans and, when available, refer to school counselors or community mental health. If a child continues to bully others despite counseling and program interventions, a clinical assessment is appropriate to identify underlying issues and safety risks (as MSDE guidance also recommends).

How should programs communicate with families and document incidents?

Use clear, timely, and factual communication. Document incident details, staff actions, parent contacts, and follow-up plans in writing. Train staff on confidentiality and respectful communication. Share resources with families and offer referrals for family supports when stressors or complex needs emerge. For providers working with infants and very young children, link behavioral observations to routines and caregiving practices; see How Do Infants Learn Through Everyday Caregiving Routines? and How Can Child Care Providers Support Infant Brain Development?

What community and program resources can support prevention and response?

Programs should compile a local list of resources (school counselor, community mental-health clinics, parent education classes, and crisis hotlines). Share training opportunities with staff and families (for example, foster families and specialized providers may use targeted ChildCareEd modules such as Foster Parent Annual Training with ChildCareEd for tailored guidance).

What are the key takeaways and recommended next steps for programs?

Summarize priorities and concrete next steps: 1. Adopt and publicize an explicit anti-bullying policy and clear reporting routes. 2. Train staff regularly on active supervision and social-emotional teaching, using ChildCareEd courses where helpful. 3. Use predictable supervision, classroom routines, and restorative responses to reduce incidents. 4. Document incidents, engage families promptly, and refer for targeted supports or clinical assessment when risks persist. 5. Monitor local discipline and referral data to measure progress and adjust strategies. These actions—policy, daily practice, communication, and training—work together to lower recurrence and long-term harms. #bullying #prevention #safety #mentalhealth #school

Summary: What should programs and families do next?

Programs and families should coordinate a clear, practical plan that blends policy, prevention, and timely intervention. Publicize an explicit anti-bullying policy and reporting routes; train staff in active supervision and social-emotional teaching; and teach children concrete reporting language and coping skills. When incidents occur, document facts, preserve evidence, and communicate respectfully with families while connecting children to school counselors or licensed mental-health providers when symptoms persist. Monitor local discipline and referral data to detect patterns and evaluate whether interventions are reducing harm. Regular review and targeted training (for example, ChildCareEd modules) keep responses effective and reduce long-term health risks.

Sources: OJP Fact Sheet on Bullying; WVEIS descriptive analysis of harassment, intimidation, and bullying behaviors (2012-2013).